Goal Update, Are we still doing Goals?

Welcome to November friends. I hate to tell you it is halfway over. Where has 2023 gone? On that note, the goals are trash, y'all. I wake up every day thinking I have a plan. Then life tells me what is actually happening and it has very little to do with my yearly goals. Alas, I'm going to have to make an executive decision. Just so I do something these last two months of the year here are the new goals. 

Run: 540 miles

Read: 3 more Books

Finish one knitting project and one quilt top

With this new pared down list I know I can find some success. Then at the end of December I will recalibrate for 2024. All is good, life is just busier than ever before and I need to give myself some credit for all the things I'm doing outside of my monthly goals. Also, I'm happy. So that is something too! 

Read 24 Books: 16/2419

Since July I've only read three books. Oops. I've also had many held books at the library that did not get picked up. 

In August I read Dear Daughter by Elizabeth Little. Even all these months later I really liked this book. It is a murder mystery where the murderer can't remember if she actually did it. She gets out of jail in the first chapter and starts an investigation to either prove her guilt or innocence. It's good! 

In September I read the true account The Dressmakers of Auschwitz by Adlington. This author interviewed Auschwitz survivors who sewed for the Nazi elite to save themselves from harder labor, many of the jobs a person could not survive doing for very long. It was a lot of talent and a little luck that this group of dressmakers survived. Very good recount of a very sad history. 

In October I read Girl Forgotten by Karin Slaughter. This was another mystery that jumped from when the crime happened to the present day investigation in the same coastal town. Chapter to chapter you were in the past or the present day. It didn't catch my attention like Dear Daughter did but I was also getting super busy when I was reading this book so maybe I didn't give it a fair shake. It was just a meh from me. 

New Goal is 3 more books to finish out 2023 strong! 

Run 760 Miles: 472/760 540

Since July I have only run 91 miles.....that sounds like  a lot until you realize that was 3 months of running. Have I been hurt, no. Has the weather been awful, no. Have I been staying up late and sleeping in? Ding Ding Ding! At least I have the TopCity Half in April so sooner or later I'm going to have to be more consistent with running again! 

Money Goals: 

• Pay Mortg. principle down 5K  Done October! 
• Replace Windows  
• Create Backyard Oasis
• New Paint and Floors in my bedroom Done May! 
• New Garbage Disposal  Done Feb!

Got the Mortgage goal done! Looks like windows and backyard will be pushed. That's ok. Not doing a second big house thing really helped the savings account! 

Trips: So I've been doing good on Traveling! In August I went to New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine. In September I went to Billings Montana. In October I actually stayed my butt home. But in November I've already been to Denver. Maybe the traveling is getting in the way of some other things....maybe! 

Finish/Work on a loose end every month: I have done terrible on this the entire year. So I'm going to finish the year strong with a finished knitting project and a finished quilt top. I'm determined. And if I have any extra time to spare I'm going to tackle a Shutterfly book for each boy. I just need to focus! 

Some reasons I don't get goals done in pictures,
 these two

I'm teaching a new driver

I get to see these wonderful faces in only a 
3 hour drive vs a 7 hour drive

Crepes

And just having too much fun! 

Parent Teacher Conferences

 This last week was a whirlwind with Extension Annual Conference and Parent Teacher Conferences. Both things went really well and we ended the week with a lazy and chilly weekend! 

I wasn't able to make it to Daryl's conferences so I have some emails to send Monday.... Alex is doing all the things he should be doing! His teachers like having him in class.

This weekend we hung out at home with just a few errand runs. We had a movie night Friday and a hot chocolate night Saturday. The boys didn't complain too much as I tried to avoid turning on the furnace until November. That didn't work out as I turned it on first thing this morning, Oct. 29th. Soooo close! The house was 54°, maybe next year! The highlight of the weekend was the KU win over OU on Saturday. What a way to see them out of the Big 12. Rock Chalk!! 

He did a great job at his student led conference!

Daryl has been driving on his learner's permit, so Alex wanted to back up and pull forward in the drive way. The youngest child really does get it all... Lol

I got an award at conference this year. Reaching a diverse audience is a Shawnee County team effort, I was happy to accept for all of us!

Football Game!

 For the last couple of years Daryl and I have made it to a KU football game. This year it seemed like the home schedule has been against us. So when I realized Stillwater is only 4 hours from Topeka and we had nothing going on Saturday, I thought "this is our chance!"

Saturday  morning the boys and I loaded up and we headed to Oklahoma! We really wanted to see a KU win but we settled for a really good game! I do have to commend the OSU fans, they were top notch. As we were leaving the stadium two fans sitting near us told the boys "your team gave us a good game, Be proud!" We were behind the KU bench and near the KU band so our section was 50/50 on KU and OSU fans. Everyone was cheering for their school and staying very cordial and friendly. 

While the OSU mascot is a little freaky looking, I would definitely see an away game there again!  

The most important part, the tradition of seeing at least one KU football game a year lives on! Rock Chalk! 

We ended up being plenty early, that's what happens
when I'm not sure where I'm going. LOL 

There is Lance! 

I don't care where I'm at, I enjoy the marching band!

After getting home at 11, we relaxed Sunday morning!

Wichita Brick Convention

 We had a great weekend at The Manor! On Friday Daryl went to the Homecoming football game and freshman tailgate. Then yesterday he went to his first homecoming dance! Alex and I stayed up late to pick him up at 11 and he had a good time! 

Today, we hit the road bright and early to meet Aunt Sofia in Wichita for a Lego festival! It was soooo cool! I think Mom, Sofia and I had just as much fun as the boys. After we saw all the amazing Lego creations we went to the Town East mall and the boys were blown away. The only Mall they know is the struggling one here in Topeka. So to see one full of stores and people was fun for them. 

It was well worth the trip to spend the day with family. I'm so glad my sister suggested it! Also, many thanks to Grandma Rosie for holding down the fort while I was in Montana. I never have to worry about anything when she is at the house. Thanks Mom! 

All is good at The Manor!

 I know I haven't updated in awhile but we have all just been trucking along. So far this month Daryl let Alex and I tag along to a Topeka High football game. It was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed the marching band and dance team at halftime. Unfortunately, the team didn't get the win but it was also fun to peek at Daryl being social at a High School event! Alex liked the popcorn, LOL. 

Daryl was my personal cheering section at a local 5K last weekend at Lake Shawnee. I'm still struggling to get miles but it's not injury anymore. It's motivation! Doing a 5K with friends from the gym was great and it reminded me why I log the hours on my own in the early morning. Because races are the fun part! 

I went to Huff n Puff without the boys this year. The Hot Air balloons were beautiful, hopefully I have them when it happens next year. They were very jealous of my pictures. 

Today, we had a full day of fun! McDonalds for breakfast ✔

Alex helped me mow the yard✔ 

Watched Lego Batman✔

 Watched the KU football win at Buffalo Wild Wings ✔

Played FOUR games of pickleball ✔ That's pretty big for us, someone is usually mad enough after two games and we have to leave. LOL 

I hope everyone else is also having a full and fun September. It's fall y'all, enjoy it! 

Daryl is in this picture....

I'm so thankful I live in a community with so much to do!

Three New States!

 Last week I took a vacation that was very multi purpose. I got to visit family that lives in New Hampshire and establish a bond with these lovely ladies! I got to check 3 states off of my list in an effort to visit all 50. Lastly, I got to visit a new National park, Acadia! 

The most standout part of New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine was the scenery. So many beautiful trees, coasts, lakes and hills. It was breathtaking. Second best thing was the weather, the highs were in the 70s and we even got a few mornings that started in the 50s, it was a welcome respite for our Kansas blazing heat. 

Meeting my NE family was a treat. Their hospitality was top notch as they showed us their part of the country. I only remember meeting my cousin Diana and I know their mom Aunt Mickey from many family gatherings. Meeting my other two cousins Deb and Rindy and their families was a pleasure. I don't know if I'll get them this way before I have to go back to visit again! Thank you all for taking time to show Mom and I around!! Love you all!

In Bar Harbor Maine!

Lobster roll!

Monty is a lake dog!

I found a lighthouse!

Acadia was gorgeous!

My cousins on the lake!