Birthday Week

This week has been a roller coaster for sure. Since last Sunday, I have been reminded over and over again of the quote, "Life is what happens when you're making other plans." 

A week ago, Jeff and I left for his 40th birthday celebration with friends in Kansas City. We had a wonderful night of friends, BBQ and stories that evoked lots of Jeff laughs and smiles. It was what I had planned for him, a time where some of his friends could spoil him a bit. They held up their part of the deal and it was great!

The down part of our roller coaster week happened after his party. It's a story that is not mine to share but I am going to love Jeff and his kiddos through it. Because that's what we do, we show up for each other. Jeff has done it for me a thousand times and I will always do it for him. <3

The upswing of the ride was Thanksgiving.  Jeff the kiddos and I went to Hays for the holiday. My boys were with their dad this year and I look forward to hearing about their holiday tonight. In Hays the cousins all paired off and puzzles, books, video games and card games were exactly what we needed. Thank you to Asa and Diane for hosting us. And the smoked turkey was amazing! 

Yesterday was my birthday. It's fun that Jeff and I's special days are only five days apart. Jeff treated me to the Chef's table at The White Linen. It was amazing, and the fresh snowfall outside made it the most beautiful evening. After our soup but before our steak Jeff gave me my birthday present. 

He asked me if I would be his partner forever with the most beautiful ring to seal the deal. We have both talked about this for our future and I said yes. Neither of us wants to be married. We both have been before and it's not for us. That's not to upset anyone that loves that part of life. Our choice is to be together without getting the government involved. So he gave me the best birthday present I could ask for, and that's the exact future life I want! My friend Danielle texted me first thing yesterday morning wishing me the best year ever. I think she is right! 

The magical group photo you can only get with a Pixel!

Meet mittens, we have a cat now! 

I was so busy loving on my family I only took two photos at Thanksgiving!

One of my turkey and this one of two other turkeys! Charlie and Joseph. 

My forever date and I ready for our fancy dinner

The most amazing birthday present, not the ring, Jeff being with me forever!

Then the best steak I've ever had. Get to White Linen immediately before they aren't serving crab meat covered filet!